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Begging Vs Pleading

I woke up this morning and my first thoughts were on begging and pleading. I rolled over in bed asking myself, what in the world does pleading your case mean and why am I thinking about this?

I heard over and over again, in church and in songs, about pleading the blood. However, I never really fully understood the concept, so I looked up the definition. Pleading is a legal term. When someone is pleading in court they come with a statement or list of inquiries and complaints to a judge. The Judge has the power to execute a final judgement based on the evidence and facts presented. After reading that, my next question was ” So how does this apply to prayer?”

I just left that question to simmer while I took care of my morning duties but when I sat down, I started to pray. It was after the prayer ended that God revealed to me what it meant.

I’m quite sure you can do a google search and find many articles on this topic but for me, it’s just this simple: begging, throwing tantrums at God only shows Him that we don’t trust Him and are full of fear and anxiety. However, when someone is pleading their case, they have already identified the problem. They have identified the Judge: they truly believe that this judge has the power to help them with their situation. They believe that the judge is fair aka a fair hearing. They can approach the judge with confidence of being heard and not turned away, no matter how big or small the matter is.

We must believe that God is sovereign: all powerful and all knowing. We must believe He hears us and is fair. We must believe that He is loving and kind. We must believe that He has the power and the grace to take notice of us and our struggles. This way of thinking keeps us level headed and secure. We are not putting trust in ourselves but the Great Judge who has highest wisdom.

 

Obey The Voice of The Lord

I’m not sure what to title this post. I’m not even sure this post will have a specific, main point but I have a few things I need to share for future reference.

  • Disobedience: It is costly. It can cost us our joy, peace, well-being, health, and life both spiritually and physically. It may seem trivial, the things God tells us to do, but He knows why we must do it.
  • Responsibility:  We are responsible for taking care of ourselves and making sure that our spirit and physical bodies are nourished. We are responsible for always being alert and on guard, knowing how to respond in all situations.

Don’t get caught up in petty foolishness. Some times we are tempted to let our guards down. But some conversations are costly. Some conversations can rob us of our peace. We must be picky and choosy about who we spend our time with, the shows we watch, where we go, etc. And if we steer off, run to Jesus and ask Him For forgiveness and help. Honestly, none of these things are possible without Christ. We cannot do anything right without Him. I no longer try to do good because I fail.

But lately my prayers have changed. I ask God to give me strength. I ask God for direction. I ask God for peace. I ask God what to do. I ask God to make me kind and loving. I ask God for all the promises in His word. And then in faith, going about my life…knowing He is faithful to do those things. Even as events are happening in my life, I am whispering a prayer.

When you are in constant prayer, you slow down and are mindful of your surroundings and your own internal feelings. You lift it all up to God and He tells you how to respond.

Disobedience is costly. I take full responsibility for how I am feeling right now. While I have so much to be thankful for, because of my disobedience, I am dealing with trivial feelings that could’ve been avoided. Instead of being thankful with all my heart, my mind is replaying what was meant as a distraction and of no significant purpose.

Guard your heart…..truly…guard it. Protect your heart and mind from everything and anything that will pull you away from the Joy of God.

It is MY responsibility to do so. I know in my heart that today is the LAST DAY that I am dealing with this issue. By faith I believe that God will give me the strength to walk away from pettiness and toxic conversations. It is not my duty to do anything but obey the voice of the LORD.

 

I guess I found a title after all…”Obey The voice of the Lord”.

The Route to Maturity

Self-pity is a big fat tantrum that  leads to depression because you lost your inner compass. You made a detour that lead to a path with no light at the end.

You are now open to negative influence because with darkness around, you don’t have light to see the origin of anything that comes your way. You walk around blind in a pit of self-pity.

And when no one turns around to look at you and validate your woes, you decide to do whatever it takes….

Whatever it takes to get noticed.

Little did you know that the cure for self-pity is responsibility. It’s growing up and accepting the things you can’t fix and fixing the things you can. It’s finding another route. It’s finding the bridge back to your main route. And when you find it, there is light and you can now see what exactly you are up against.

You are in control, more than you know. You have a voice even if you think no one is listening and you can change YOUR world, one day at a time. You decide what you choose to see each day.